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The Bastard on the Couch: 27 Men Try Really Hard to Explain Their Feelings About Love, Loss, Fatherhood, and Freedom

The Bastard on the Couch: 27 Men Try Really Hard to Explain Their Feelings About Love, Loss, Fatherhood, and Freedom

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Author: Daniel Jones
Publisher: Harper Paperbacks
Category: Book

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Rating: 4.0 out of 5 stars 16 reviews
Sales Rank: 246327

Media: Paperback
Pages: 320
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Dimensions (in): 7.9 x 5.3 x 1

ISBN: 0060565357
Dewey Decimal Number: 306
EAN: 9780060565350
ASIN: 0060565357

Publication Date: May 31, 2005
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The husband of The Bitch in the House responds with a collection of original essays in which male writers describe what men desire, need, love, and loathe in their relationships and in the world today.

Cathi Hanauer's bestselling The Bitch in the House: 26 Women Tell the Truth about Sex, Solitude, Work, Motherhood, and Marriage spurred a national conversation about the level of friction in contemporary marriages and relationships. Now her husband, Daniel Jones, has rallied the men for the "literary equivalent of The Full Monty," in which twenty–seven thoughtful, passionate and often hilarious men, lay it bare when it comes to their wives and girlfriends, their hopes, and fears.

Enough with pop psychiatrists telling us why men lie, cheat, and want nothing more than to laze around the house in front of the TV. Enough with women wondering aloud–at increasing volume–why the men in their lives behave the way they do. The time has come for men to speak for themselves.

Many of the husbands and fathers in these pages contemplate aspects of their personal lives they've never before revealed in print–they kick open the door on their marriages and sex lives, their fathering and domestic conflicts, their most intimate relationships and situations. Yet unlike the average meat–and–potatoes father who still rules the roost, these men are grappling with new ideas of manhood –– some they are going after and grabbing, and others that are being thrust upon them by a changing world.

Powerful, heartfelt and irreverent, The Bastard on the Couch is a bold, unprecedented glimpse into the dark corners and glaring truths of modern relationships that is guaranteed to amuse, entertain, enrich, and provoke.




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5 out of 5 stars Hilarious   December 17, 2007
James W. Wilburn
I was lucky enough to read the author's essay first. This is the only book where I couldn't stop laughing out loud. Since I'm on my third marriage every essay hit home and sent me back in time. This book is must for every guy who needs to know that they are not alone in frustration while dealing with women. This book is seriously an heirloom which will passed to my son!!


4 out of 5 stars Painful Truths   February 18, 2007
M-Azlan
3 out of 4 found this review helpful

I bought this book because I wanted to know what married men elsewhere were really going through. Just about every married man I know lies about his married life either out of shame or some perverse pleasure in seeing me make the same mistake. Anyway, this book features 27 tales by 27 different men on their relationships and lives. Apparently, most are prolific writers which explains the highly descriptive (sometimes overly descriptive) and humourous literary styles. It's almost as if you are reading exactly what is going on in their minds... word for word. The tales are interesting but after reading about 20 or so, it might seem repetitive to some. The book picks up toward the end, though. There is not much 'substance' in terms of what a bachelor (or other married men) could learn from all this except some simple truths:

1) Women tend to outearn men these days and men generally don't like it
2) Men are relegated to housework and they generally don't like it
3) Men aren't getting enough sex from their girlfriends/wives and generally don't like it
4) Women want the same rights as men but not the same responsibilities and men generally don't like it
5) Men will soldier on no matter what life throws at them and they like that about themselves

I haven't read, 'The Bitch in the House' which is the predecessor to this book on the same theme except written by women and don't intend to. It's not that I'm not sympathetic to what women are also going through in relationships and life but being a man, I really don't need an additional dose of bitching in my reading material. Overall, I recommend 'The Bastard on the Couch' if you are a guy looking to learn the truth about how other men feel about the stuff they wouldn't ordinarily talk about. Here's a hint: it's not very different from how you feel. Don't expect to put this book down feeling cheerful, though.



1 out of 5 stars Why not on Oprah's List?   April 27, 2006
Brian Smith (West Chester, OH USA)
4 out of 7 found this review helpful

OK. I'll admit this review might be unfair. I didn't even finish the book. I might have missed some real gems. But, since I didn't finish it, I thought I should explain why.

I found the essays to be well written but the guys I just couldn't have a lot of empathy for or really understand the point behind many of the essays. The Boy Toy, the guy who was proud of his "threesome" affairs (as a regular fare), the man looking for a "Female John Wayne", the guy whose wife had an affair that he "forgave" her for and then spent 7 years wallowing in the relationship, had an affair of his own and returned to find her in the arms of a woman", these are "typical" guys? Maybe on Jerry Springer.

Not all of the essays were completely bad. The 47 year bachelor had some interesting things to say. The guy with the open marriage was refreshingly honest (even though he didn't use his real name) about the inherent problems with "open" relationship (although I still think he's fooling himself). The essay about the guy who was short-tempered with his children almost actually hit home. But, overall the book is not worth my time to finish.

I am a 45 year old, happily married father of 2. I have been married for 15 years. I had a pretty decent life before marriage and can actually remember those days pretty well. I picked up this book looking for some light reading and maybe some insight as to what makes men tick. I freely admit, I'm not your typical guy. I thought it would interesting and entertaining.

I made it through the first five or six essays. I didn't keep count. Normally, I'll plow through a book no matter how bad it starts off. But, I decided to put this one down last night and probably won't pick it up again. Maybe my wife will read it when Oprah decides to put it on her list. Women would just love to bash men with this one.



4 out of 5 stars A self proclaimed "bitch's" take on Bastard...   February 25, 2006
N. Burkhardt-Goode (Austin, TX)
4 out of 4 found this review helpful

I found "Bastard on the Couch" an engaging collection of viewpoints, some that made me laugh, rage and cry all in one story. It definitely waved things in my face that I had taken for granted in my own relationships with men throughout my life that definitely added a depth to my understanding of those dynamics, even answered some lifelong questions for me. I recommend it with enthusiasm to both women and men. I even read exerpts from it to my husband so many times that he started to say, "Not something ELSE from that Bastard book again...."


5 out of 5 stars Great book, fast shipping   September 21, 2005
Chrystal M. Koll (Sulphur, LA USA)
0 out of 23 found this review helpful

Received my book quickly, book in the exact shape it was described. Highly recommend this seller!

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